How to make Grace

DM 20th December 2025

The twenty-first of December in Australia is called ‘Gravy Day’, by virtue of Paul Kelly’s famous song ‘How to make gravy’ – a melancholy ballad about a family-man in jail, missing his wife and kids, and lamenting that he won’t be with them on Christmas Day. “It’s the twenty-first of December…. and who’s gonna make the gravy now?” Its simple chord progression of E to F#m to G#m to E accentuates the emotion, and ensures that all the heart-strings vibrate with feeling.

The most touching line for me, is this: “If I get good behaviour / I’ll be out of here by July”. Good behaviour? (Sounds like the deal that Santa always makes, as in, ‘You’d better be good’ or else.) And only if I get ‘good behaviour’, I’ll be home. To hug my wife and see my kids. But what happens if I don’t? And what happens if I can’t?

The Bible’s song of pardon is played with a different strumming pattern and on major chords – C(alvary) to G(race) to F(aith) to C(alm) – and describes forgiveness on the basis of Christ’s perfect behaviour and gracious atonement. The gospel does not negate the consequences of crime in this life, and some for their crimes need to stay in jail for Christmas. But it does remove the guilt of sin in this life, and guarantees the long release in the life to come. And no one needs to wait till July to get out.

Recent Posts

Surprise catch

Surprise catch DM 13th December 2025 I’ve fished out my fishing rod for the holiday break. Last time I used it, I didn’t catch a

Read More »

Letter to self

Letter to self DM 6th December 2025 One of the questions that is typically asked when interviewing people of more mature years is this: “If

Read More »

Star of wonder

Star of wonder DM 19th November 2025 This year’s Australian Christmas stamp has just been issued, and bears the first-day postmark of our suburb of

Read More »

Six Seven

Six Seven DM 1st November 2025 The kids all think they’re cool with their sing-song ‘six seven’ – glad most of all, for the way

Read More »

Serious Twitching

Serious Twitching DM 25th October 2025 A twitchathon is happening in Sydney this weekend, where participants will try, during a set period of time, to

Read More »

Mulberry Prayers

Mulberry prayers DM 11th October 2025 I do love mulberries. Particularly enclosed in warm pastry and served with ice-cream. There’s luscious tree in a suburb

Read More »